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PICK UP LINES

February 16, 2008

Pick up lines should never be used when attempting to attract a woman.

Women of beauty are hit on more times in a day than hours on the clock. By the time they reach their early twenties they have already started building up a shield to pick up attempts. Openers like ‘you look beautiful’, ‘can I buy you a drink’ along with hundreds of other attempts and pick up lines have passed through their ears thousands of times by thousands of men.

Women begin associating these common sayings or attempts if you will with just another looser guy trying to hit on them. Any common attempts are rejected before they’re even started. They become numb to it. Rightly so. I’m not interested or no thanks becomes a conditioned response that women use on a daily basis to brush you off.

Striking a conversation with a woman you don’t know in a way that grabs and holds her attention is a difficult task for this exact reason. This is known as the approach. Approaching a woman correctly is a very crucial step. If you come off threatening to her or as just another guy trying to make your move you’re not going to get anywhere. She has to feel attracted to you. This attraction is not based on your looks; any exact words you say or how confident you are (although confidence helps). It is based off of her emotions.

Beautiful women are use to guys flattering, obsessing over them, using pick up lines, buying drinks, and bending over backwards for their attention.

To create an attraction from a beautiful woman during the initial approach don’t compliment her looks, don’t buy her drinks, and don’t let her think you’re there for her.

You should never compliment a woman the moment you meet her. Never compliment her looks either. Any superficial compliment will instantly set a buzzer off in her head that you are trying to hook up with her. 9 out of 10 guys make this fatal mistake. She knows she is beautiful; she gets it from every other guy that tells her. Compliments should always be earned. She doesn’t earn a complement because she is hot.

If she walked up to you and said hey I like your BMW, we should hang out what’s your number. What are you going to think? This chick wants me for my car. Get lost.

She has to earn her compliments by doing something that deserves them.

Focus on compliments that show you’re appreciation of her:

  • I like how witty you are
  • You have a good energy about you.
  • I like your personality.
  • I like how you can keep up.
  • I like your playful attitude.
  • You’re quick on your feet.
  • You seem like a fun girl.
  • I feel like I’ve known you for ever.
  • You’re funny
  • I like the way you carry yourself.
  • You’re very personable.
  • You’re very confident.
  • I like your shirt it matches your eyes and necklace. Did you choose that yourself?

The difference is you are complimenting her on things that are tangible. She had to do something to receive those compliments. They have meaning behind them. They show her that you understand who she is on several different levels. She realizes you’re not there to just try and hook up with her, but that there is a deeper connection between the two of you.

Furthermore, she begins to believe that you aren’t phased by a woman’s beauty and are capable of noticing traits within her that are true to who she is as a person. This makes you a man of value and demonstrates confidence and understanding. Have the notion that she has to impress you in some way other than her looks to receive a compliment. Don’t give out compliments blindly. Compliments are only deserved if she actually does something to demonstrate it.

THE BLACK BOOK
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The Black Book contains everything you need to know to successfully attract and attain beautiful women. You will quickly find that whatever perceptions or ideas you have on what works has little justification. We are going to show you step by step how to approach, open, attract, create comfort, seduce, build rapport and maintain attraction between you and any woman. There are sequences that must take place to propel you forward though each and every stage. If you miss one of the stages you’ll be hitting your head against the wall each and every time.

The Black Book is going to teach you the structure, the sequence and how to push through the hang ups. The methods described throughout the Black Book are backed by countless hours of in field experimentation and refinement. In other words we practice what we preach. Furthermore, The Black Book dives into a woman’s psyche, their social interactions, evolutionary needs, and how they are hardwired to respond to different situations and experiences. It’s just as much science as it is real world experimentation.

The Black Book will teach you how to read a woman’s body language, what she is really saying, how she acts in different social environments, the signs to look for to let you know if your on track or off. How to counter act her bitch guard, how to show her value, how to disable the alpha male in the group, but most importantly how to wind up with her at the end of the night.

We are not only going to show you how but also provide examples, scripts, and material that you can use throughout each and every step of the process.

These are but a handful of the topics, discussion and techniques outlined in The Black Book.

To Learn more about The Venusian Arts, The Black Book, and Free Starter Packages CLICK HERE and visit The Black Book Website.

Throughout The Black Book you will find that the techniques, methods, and tactics we preach usually result in the woman competing for your attention, your attraction, your approval, and your companionship at the end of the night. A true ‘Pickup Artist’ doesn’t work to attain beautiful women, beautiful women work to attain him.

This is the true meaning of ‘Game’. Very few men possess the attributes and skill sets to be worthy of being considered a ‘Pick Up’ artist. Not for any lack potential, ambition or trying but simply because they do not possess the understanding and knowledge.

For the majority the education is out of reach due to secrecy and the fact that ‘Pick Up Artists’ don’t tend to share the secrets of the trade without an extraordinary contribution of money.

 

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