1. I’m not cheap, but I am on special this week.

1. Nice perfume. Must you marinate in it?

1. I never forget a face…but in your case I’ll make an exception!

1. Why don’t you slip into something more comfortable…like a coma.

1. You look like a million bucks! (All green and wrinkled.)

1. You look like a talent scout for a cemetery.

1. Where did you get your haircut, the pet shop?

1. If you had your life to live over again, do it overseas.

1. I’m trying to imagine you with a personality.

1. Save your breath. You’ll need it to blow up your date.

1. I bet your mother has a loud bark!

1. I bet your brain feels as good as new, seeing that you’ve never used it.

1. I hear the only place you’re ever invited is outside.

1. I thought of you all day today. I was at the zoo.

1. I’d like to help you out. Which way did you come in?

1. I’m busy now. Can I ignore you some other time?

1. I’ve seen people like you before, but I had to pay admission!

1. If ignorance is bliss, you must be the happiest person alive.

1. Some day you will find yourself – and wish you hadn’t.

1. There is no vaccine against stupidity.

1. Keep talking, someday you’ll say something intelligent.

1. Every girl has the right to be ugly, but you abused the privilege.

1. I heard you went to have your head examined but the doctors found nothing there.

1. Someone said that you are not fit to sleep with pigs. I stuck up for the pigs.

1. The problem with the gene pool is that there is no lifeguard

1. How can I miss you if you won’t go away?

1. People like you should not be aloud to breed

1. Oh my God, look at you. Anyone else hurt in the accident?

1. I hear you were born on a farm. Any more in the litter?

Women of beauty are hit on more times in a day than hours on the clock. By the time they reach their early twenties they have already started building up a shield to pick up attempts. Openers like ‘you look beautiful’, ‘can I buy you a drink’ along with hundreds of other attempts and pick up lines have passed through their ears thousands of times by thousands of men.

Women begin associating these common sayings or attempts if you will with just another looser guy trying to hit on them. Any common attempts are rejected before they’re even started. They become numb to it. Rightly so. I’m not interested or no thanks becomes a conditioned response that women use on a daily basis to brush you off.

Striking a conversation with a woman you don’t know in a way that grabs and holds her attention is a difficult task for this exact reason. This is known as the approach. Approaching a woman correctly is a very crucial step. If you come off threatening to her or as just another guy trying to make your move you’re not going to get anywhere. She has to feel attracted to you. This attraction is not based on your looks; any exact words you say or how confident you are (although confidence helps). It is based off of her emotions.

Beautiful women are use to guys flattering, obsessing over them, using pick up lines, buying drinks, and bending over backwards for their attention.

To create an attraction from a beautiful woman during the initial approach don’t compliment her looks, don’t buy her drinks, and don’t let her think you’re there for her.

You should never compliment a woman the moment you meet her. Never compliment her looks either. Any superficial compliment will instantly set a buzzer off in her head that you are trying to hook up with her. 9 out of 10 guys make this fatal mistake. She knows she is beautiful; she gets it from every other guy that tells her. Compliments should always be earned. She doesn’t earn a complement because she is hot.

If she walked up to you and said hey I like your BMW, we should hang out what’s your number. What are you going to think? This chick wants me for my car. Get lost.

She has to earn her compliments by doing something that deserves them.

Focus on compliments that show you’re appreciation of her:

• I like how witty you are
• You have a good energy about you.
• I like your personality.
• I like how you can keep up.
• I like your playful attitude.
• You’re quick on your feet.
• You seem like a fun girl.
• I feel like I’ve known you for ever.
• You’re funny
• I like the way you carry yourself.
• You’re very personable.
• You’re very confident.
• I like your shirt it matches your eyes and necklace. Did you choose that yourself?

The difference is you are complimenting her on things that are tangible. She had to do something to receive those compliments. They have meaning behind them. They show her that you understand who she is on several different levels. She realizes you’re not there to just try and hook up with her, but that there is a deeper connection between the two of you.

Furthermore, she begins to believe that you aren’t phased by a woman’s beauty and are capable of noticing traits within her that are true to who she is as a person. This makes you a man of value and demonstrates confidence and understanding. Have the notion that she has to impress you in some way other than her looks to receive a compliment. Don’t give out compliments blindly. Compliments are only deserved if she actually does something to demonstrate it.

THE BLACK BOOK
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The Black Book contains everything you need to know to successfully attract and attain beautiful women. You will quickly find that whatever perceptions or ideas you have on what works has little justification. We are going to show you step by step how to approach, open, attract, create comfort, seduce, build rapport and maintain attraction between you and any woman. There are sequences that must take place to propel you forward though each and every stage. If you miss one of the stages you’ll be hitting your head against the wall each and every time.

The Black Book is going to teach you the structure, the sequence and how to push through the hang ups. The methods described throughout the Black Book are backed by countless hours of in field experimentation and refinement. In other words we practice what we preach. Furthermore, The Black Book dives into a woman’s psyche, their social interactions, evolutionary needs, and how they are hardwired to respond to different situations and experiences. It’s just as much science as it is real world experimentation.

The Black Book will teach you how to read a woman’s body language, what she is really saying, how she acts in different social environments, the signs to look for to let you know if your on track or off. How to counter act her bitch guard, how to show her value, how to disable the alpha male in the group, but most importantly how to wind up with her at the end of the night.

We are not only going to show you how but also provide examples, scripts, and material that you can use throughout each and every step of the process.

These are but a handful of the topics, discussion and techniques outlined in The Black Book.

To Learn more about The Venusian Arts, The Black Book, and Free Starter Packages CLICK HERE and visit The Black Book Website.

Throughout The Black Book you will find that the techniques, methods, and tactics we preach usually result in the woman competing for your attention, your attraction, your approval, and your companionship at the end of the night. A true ‘Pickup Artist’ doesn’t work to attain beautiful women, beautiful women work to attain him.

This is the true meaning of ‘Game’. Very few men possess the attributes and skill sets to be worthy of being considered a ‘Pick Up’ artist. Not for any lack potential, ambition or trying but simply because they do not possess the understanding and knowledge.

For the majority the education is out of reach due to secrecy and the fact that ‘Pick Up Artists’ don’t tend to share the secrets of the trade without an extraordinary contribution of money.

The notion that nice guys finish last while jerks end up with the girl is not a new concept. The question that is probably on your mind is why? Why wouldn’t a woman want to be with someone that treats her good, respects her, and is always there to make sure she is alright?

Let’s take a look at the nice guys thought process. The nice guy is often kind, polite, friendly, considerate, romantic and caring. This is the exact reason that the nice guy always fails. He demonstrates qualities that should be avoided throughout the attraction stages. Once she’s your girlfriend you can ease into the nice guy routine.

Being a nice guy doesn’t create a powerful attraction in a woman.

The jerk on the other hand is inconsiderate, rude, teases the woman, never compliments her, doesn’t smile to often, is cocky and is often sarcastic. They tend to create tension on a surface level. By creating this tension there can be attraction.

Have you ever heard of sexual tension? It’s a build up between two people. You both feel that urge for sex and the feeling of tension makes the experience all that much rewarding when it happens. The same can be applied to attracting a woman. Creating a tension between both of you, like a game of cat and mouse is much more stimulating for a woman when you are in the initial stage of attracting her.

Here is the breakthrough: Women don’t prefer jerks over nice guys. They are just more attracted to them because jerks in general are not afraid to stir things up a bit. Jerks on one hand are not afraid to talk about sexuality, they’re not afraid to walk away; they make a woman feel that she needs to qualify herself. Jerk is a tainted word.

Jerk = Challenge

As opposed to the nice guy who is telling her everything she has heard 20 times a day.

You are beautiful

I love your eyes

Can I buy you a drink?

Let me get that for you

A nice guy acts interested in her; demostrating his attraction to her. You’re another guy who blatantly likes her and her natural response is, “how can I get rid of this typical guy politely.” This is usually why nice guys end up in the friend stage at the end of the night. A beautiful woman has preconditioned responses that she has engrained into her head from previous experiences to get rid of the nice guy when he approaches. (More on this inside the Black Book)

It’s not that women prefer inconsiderate over considerate or that they prefer rudeness to kindness, it is simply that they want to feel that you have status, that women don’t phase you, that you can be in control, and you can make her feel alive and on edge a bit. She needs that challenge. Something has to spark that inner desire.

You can’t respect someone that kisses your ass.

Your disinterest creates attraction for a beautiful woman.

Avoid these common mistakes in the attraction stages:

Being a nice guy

Letting her know that you like her

Buying her affection with presents or gifts

Giving all power to the woman

Looking for her approval

Complimenting her beauty

Here is an easy way to help some of you understand.

When you were a child think about how you interacted with girls. You teased them, pulled their hair, and thought they had cuties. You weren’t nice to them. You also realized that they were completely different than you. You were always the one who made decisions and the girl went along with it. You definitely weren’t afraid to approach them. If she wanted to play Barbie’s you would leave and go play GI Joes. It was your way or the highway. When you did include her in the activities you did she was always interested because she got to be one of the boys. And surprisingly they wanted to be part of your scene.

Flash back to adulthood and look at how you treat women now. You’re so wound up trying to get laid and bombarded with testosterone and anxiety that you have lost touch with all the instincts you had when you were a kid. If you could just go back to that kid state, take your natural logic and thought process of girls and then apply it in a playful adult way towards women today you would be successful off the charts. Learn to tease them a bit, create tension between you two, make the decisions and have her chase after you. You hold the power in the interaction.

Most men treat beautiful women like they are on a pedestal. Most beautiful women’s heads are overly inflated with the notion that they are above everyone because of their looks. However, deep down women realize that they are in fact the inferior gender and that males hold true dominance. Most beautiful women are insecure and waiting for that dominant male to grab them by the hand and show them the way. The problem is 95% of males out there have forgotten how to demonstrate their dominance and curb their anxiety.

Every time you feel scared or nervous or afraid to approach a woman just think back to when you were a kid. You weren’t afraid of girls then. You are programmed to feel anxiety when you become an adult from an evolutionary perspective. Learn to control the fear of rejection. It’s not real. It can only hurt you if you let it.

We’ll dive into curbing your fear of Anxiety through several exercises outlined in the Black Book.

THE BLACK BOOK
******************

The Black Book contains everything you need to know to successfully attract and attain beautiful women. You will quickly find that whatever perceptions or ideas you have on what works has little justification. We are going to show you step by step how to approach, open, attract, create comfort, seduce, build rapport and maintain attraction between you and any woman. There are sequences that must take place to propel you forward though each and every stage. If you miss one of the stages you’ll be hitting your head against the wall each and every time.

The Black Book is going to teach you the structure, the sequence and how to push through the hang ups. The methods described throughout the Black Book are backed by countless hours of in field experimentation and refinement. In other words we practice what we preach. Furthermore, The Black Book dives into a woman’s psyche, their social interactions, evolutionary needs, and how they are hardwired to respond to different situations and experiences. It’s just as much science as it is real world experimentation.

The Black Book will teach you how to read a woman’s body language, what she is really saying, how she acts in different social environments, the signs to look for to let you know if your on track or off. How to counter act her bitch guard, how to show her value, how to disable the alpha male in the group, but most importantly how to wind up with her at the end of the night.

We are not only going to show you how but also provide examples, scripts, and material that you can use throughout each and every step of the process.

These are but a handful of the topics, discussion and techniques outlined in The Black Book.

To Learn more about The Venusian Arts, The Black Book, and Free Starter Packages CLICK HERE and visit The Black Book Website.